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The church has long been a site of healing and hurt. Is that changing?<\/p>\n

While some have found community, joy, support, and love in their church home, others have faced isolation, shame, abandonment, and even deep traumatic wounds. But if you don\u2019t necessarily want to give up your religion or leave the church – what does repair look like? What does spirituality look like for those who have \u2018church hurt?\u2019 To get into it, Brittany is joined by Candice Marie Benbow, theologian and author of , and Timothy Schraeder Rodriguez, author of :\u00a0.<\/p>\n

Candice and Timothy show Brittany how \u2018church hurt\u2019 stretches out from the pulpit and into cultural norms around gender, sexuality, acceptance. And they teach Brittany what it means to create a spiritual relationship on your own terms.<\/p>\n

Support Public Media. Join NPR Plus.<\/p>\n

Follow Brittany on Instagram: @bmluse
For handpicked podcast recommendations every week, subscribe to NPR\u2019s Pod Club newsletter at npr.org\/podclub. <\/p>\n

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The church has long been a site of healing and hurt. Is that changing?<\/p>\n

While some have found community, joy, support, and love in their church home, others have faced isolation, shame, abandonment, and even deep traumatic wounds. But if you don\u2019t necessarily want to give up your religion or leave the church – what does repair look like? What does spirituality look like for those who have \u2018church hurt?\u2019 To get into it, Brittany is joined by Candice Marie Benbow<\/a>, theologian and author of Red Lip Theology: For Church Girls Who\u2019ve Considered Tithing to the Beauty Supply Store When Sunday Morning Isn\u2019t Enough<\/em><\/a>, and Timothy Schraeder Rodriguez<\/a>, author of Conversion Therapy Dropout<\/em><\/a>:\u00a0A Queer Story of Faith and Belonging<\/em><\/a>.<\/p>\n

Candice and Timothy show Brittany how \u2018church hurt\u2019 stretches out from the pulpit and into cultural norms around gender, sexuality, acceptance. And they teach Brittany what it means to create a spiritual relationship on your own terms.<\/p>\n

Support Public Media. Join NPR Plus.<\/a><\/p>\n

Follow Brittany on Instagram: @bmluse<\/a>
For handpicked podcast recommendations every week, subscribe to NPR\u2019s Pod Club newsletter at npr.org\/podclub<\/a>. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2041,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[197],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2042","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-its-been-a-minute"],"yoast_head":"\n'Church Hurt' & the power of healing religious scars - Best USA Movers<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/bestusamoverss.com\/?p=2042\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"'Church Hurt' & the power of healing religious scars - Best USA Movers\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"The church has long been a site of healing and hurt. 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